Hi, I'm elena lynn (she/her), and I offer feminine embodiment and sacred sexuality counseling to women on their journey to sovereignty, so that we can discover and express our authentic selves and soul’s desires, with full access to pleasure, play, and self-love.
I use a blend of somatics (listening to the body at the nervous system level), intuitive coaching, energy medicine, and emotional processes to support clients in moving forward from old patterns, and open up to a pleasurable, empowered, soul-led life. Working with me is a combo of two of my core values: depth … and play. I believe in titrating into the dark, and resourcing with pleasure, to move toward wholeness.
I’m a VITA sexuality coach, certified through the Tantric Institute for Integrated Sexuality with Layla Martin. I’ve completed Rebloom Coach Training Levels 1 & 2 with trauma resolution coach Rachael Maddox, and I am a student of Alchemical Alignment: Bodywork for Trauma Resolution and Embodiment of Spirit, with Brigit Viskins. Basically, I’m a nerd for learning all I can about healing on mind, body, soul and energetic levels!
My spiritual path began in 2012 with hatha yoga teacher training and reiki. I dove deep into sexual healing and conscious sexuality soon after, through the jade egg and conscious self-pleasure practices. There are times in my life where I identified as a sex addict and love addict, and times where I’ve experienced numbness around sex and orgasm. I’ve lived many, many sexual lives, and now enjoy a hot, sacred, beautiful sexual relationship with the Divine. (And my incredible partner, Dan.)
Professionally, I’m unique in that I wanted to be a sexual surrogate when I was just 16 years old (my advice to you is to NOT tell your Catholic parents if this is the career path you’re interested in, lol). While getting my BA in Creative Writing, I began working at a sex toy shop … and from there, worked in the sex toy industry for almost 20 years. I’ve seen sexuality from numerous angles, both personally and professionally.
My healing journey includes moving from low self-worth, relationships with narcissists and hyper-sexuality, to shedding codependence, and providing unwavering love for myself and my needs.
While I’m here to help people integrate a healthy and vibrant sexuality, I believe in a holistic approach. It’s rare that our sexual blocks don’t stem from childhood and relational conditioning, from the spaces where we didn’t have our needs for attention or love met. If you and I work together, we will go deep. Depth infused with joy and magic is my forte.
I consider myself a warrior for self-love and pleasure, and it's my goal to support you to experience and express the bliss of a healthy, vibrant, unfettered sexuality, free from old stories and shame. This is part education, part somatic coaching and emotional processing, and all from your inherent wisdom.
I also work with people around childhood emotional neglect. So many of us were born sensitive, into family systems that didn’t celebrate our unique gifts. We may have been ignored, left alone, or silenced. This leaves a lasting imprint on our ability to love ourselves and meet our own needs. Through Rachael Maddox’s ReBloom framework, and through the incorporation of trauma resolution skills, I support clients in healing developmental wounds.
I have a huge interest in all things spiritual and psychological as well: I’m well-versed/trained in energy work, reiki, tarot, astrology, depth psychology, magic, Enneagram, shamanic journey, jade egg, tantra, and yoga, just to name a few.
I am currently in review of my work from the lens of anti-racism, anti-appropriation, and inclusivity. Black, brown, and queer bodies are welcome here, as is any woman, trans, cis, non-binary, or otherwise.
I’m here to help you recognize and move past blocks in sex, love, and personal power, so that you can recognize your wholeness, feel easeful in your sexuality, and love/make love in alignment. I’m here to help provide a path to self-love, self-worth and aligned self-expression.
Most of my guidance is offered via Zoom, phone, or in person in Lafayette, CO.
sac·ral
adjective /ˈsakrəl,ˈsākrəl/
1) having to do with the sacral chakra or second energy center. Where our sexuality, creativity, personal power, money & worth issues, and shame reside.
2) of, for or relating to sacred rites (rights)
em·pow·er·ment
noun /əmˈpouərmənt/
